THE I CAN'T SYNDROME

How many times have we heard these words in our lifetime. Often times its created by a lack of self esteem,  inferior complex  or, just merely a lack of confidence within ourselves.  This negativity that rages within ourselves needs to be replaced with a boost of positive thinking. Positive thinking is believing in yourself that you can, you will, you shall, not I can’t I don’t know how, I can't learn. Those kind of thoughts can hinder you in what ever direction you are seeking for your life.  Often times we are so full of lack of confidence, that we begin a project or an assignment only to leave it incomplete due to the mindset we have developed over time.  After trying to attempt a job, or trying to learn a new subject we get so overwhelmed and frustrated, we throw our hands up and quit.


If we stop a moment and consider that every swimmer, every reader, every writer, never achieved learning the skill on the first try, it takes learning, perseverance and determination.




What needs to be accomplish is setting our mindset on determination and positive thinking. Instead of thinking on the I can’ts, we need to start focusing on the I cans.


I can 


I shall


I will


If we get caught in the mindset of negative thinking,, we need to daily start making it a habit of  replacing those negative thoughts with good thoughts every time we start thinking those thoughts.


Start reading motivational quotes, memorizing some favorite ones


Before we start speaking so negative of ourselves, I would like to share some interesting stories about some individuals that had handicapps and overcome that to achieve some outstanding accomplishments.


One was a story about a young Chinese man that lost both of his arms in an accident. This young man is now a talented piano player  using both of his feet to become a very successful piano player.




The second story is a bout a young lady with no arms, no legs, but yet she didn’t allow that to hinder her, she drives a car, she had a child and shows how she daily takes care of that child.


What does these individuals have in common?


Determination, willpower, perseverance, and positive thinking.


So the next time you think you cant achieve or master something, lets try the above